{"id":134,"date":"2016-06-11T01:46:45","date_gmt":"2016-06-11T07:46:45","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.irenenorth.com\/writings\/?p=134"},"modified":"2024-04-22T02:46:17","modified_gmt":"2024-04-22T02:46:17","slug":"perfer-et-obdura-dolor-hic-tibi-proderit-olim","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/irenenorth.com\/writings\/2016\/06\/11\/perfer-et-obdura-dolor-hic-tibi-proderit-olim\/","title":{"rendered":"Perfer et obdura, dolor hic tibi proderit olim"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"attachment_135\" style=\"width: 686px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.irenenorth.com\/writings\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/06\/gram-for-poem.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-135\" class=\"size-large wp-image-135\" src=\"http:\/\/www.irenenorth.com\/writings\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/06\/gram-for-poem-768x1024.jpg\" alt=\"The best grandma in the world.\" width=\"676\" height=\"901\" srcset=\"https:\/\/irenenorth.com\/writings\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/06\/gram-for-poem-768x1024.jpg 768w, https:\/\/irenenorth.com\/writings\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/06\/gram-for-poem-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/irenenorth.com\/writings\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/06\/gram-for-poem-1152x1536.jpg 1152w, https:\/\/irenenorth.com\/writings\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/06\/gram-for-poem-1536x2048.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/irenenorth.com\/writings\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/06\/gram-for-poem.jpg 1600w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 676px) 100vw, 676px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-135\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">The best grandma in the world.<\/p><\/div>\n<p><strong>Perfer et obdura, dolor hic tibi proderit olim<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I spoke to you on Thursday<br \/>\nby Saturday, you were gone<br \/>\nIn my jealousy<br \/>\nI wanted you to stay<br \/>\nto speak to you again<br \/>\nto tell you I loved you once more<\/p>\n<p>The morning light had come<br \/>\nyour time was done<br \/>\n1:11, 11:11, it doesn&#8217;t matter the hour<br \/>\nthere was so much more to say<\/p>\n<p>No more history lessons<br \/>\nno more dirty jokes<br \/>\nno more simple days<br \/>\nto sit with each other<br \/>\nand just<br \/>\nbe<\/p>\n<p>I can still feel your soft skin<br \/>\nyour gentle voice<br \/>\nin the echoes of my mind<br \/>\nyour laugh<br \/>\nyour smile<br \/>\nhow you said my name<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s been five long years<br \/>\nwithout your advice<br \/>\nyour wisdom<br \/>\nyour wit<\/p>\n<p>I miss my cognate<br \/>\nmy mentor<br \/>\nmy friend<\/p>\n<p>The loss<br \/>\ncannot be replaced<br \/>\nwhat was once extant<br \/>\nis now gone<\/p>\n<p>If I could ask<br \/>\nyou&#8217;d say<br \/>\nBe patient and tough;<br \/>\nsomeday this pain will be useful to you<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Perfer et obdura, dolor hic tibi proderit olim I spoke to you on Thursday by Saturday, you were gone In my jealousy I wanted you to stay to speak to you again to tell you I loved you once more The morning light had come your time was done 1:11, 11:11, it doesn&#8217;t matter the [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2,9],"tags":[164,257],"class_list":["post-134","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-gram","category-poetry","tag-gram","tag-new-york"],"post_mailing_queue_ids":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/irenenorth.com\/writings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/134","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/irenenorth.com\/writings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/irenenorth.com\/writings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/irenenorth.com\/writings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/irenenorth.com\/writings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=134"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/irenenorth.com\/writings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/134\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3908,"href":"https:\/\/irenenorth.com\/writings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/134\/revisions\/3908"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/irenenorth.com\/writings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=134"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/irenenorth.com\/writings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=134"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/irenenorth.com\/writings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=134"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}